Strangers and Exiles: Why Don’t We Ever Feel Quite at Home Here?
EXPLORING THE PILGRIM THEME IN SCRIPTURE—FROM EDEN TO ETERNITY
Hebrews 11:13-16 speaks of the faithful who “confessed they were strangers and exiles on the earth.” These weren’t just wanderers lost in their circumstances—they were pilgrims who’d caught a glimpse of something greater. That familiar ache of not quite belonging, that persistent sense of homesickness even when surrounded by material comfort—it’s not a flaw in our spiritual wiring. It’s a divine marker, a holy displacement God Himself has engineered.
Scripture tells us the saints are “seeking a homeland” and “desiring a better country, that is, a heavenly one.” This insight transforms how we understand that nagging feeling of restlessness that follows us no matter where we go. What if it isn’t just wanderlust or discontent? What if our spiritual homesickness is actually a homing device, divinely calibrated to keep us longing, even pining for our true destination?
PARADISE LOST: THE FIRST EXILES
When Adam and Eve were evicted from Eden after the Fall, they became the first exiles in history. Their eviction wasn’t just a geographical displacement—it marked humanity’s first spiritual separation from intimate, soul-satisfying communion with God. This exile echoes through every human heart, manifesting as that inexplicable sense that something essential has been lost—that we’re somehow living east of Eden.
Yet even in this first exile, we see God’s redemptive pattern emerging. The same God who pronounced judgement also made the first promise of restoration. In speaking to our first parents after the Fall, He hints at a Redeemer, one who’d crush the serpent’s head (Genesis 3:15). From the very beginning, then, our exile contained within it not only the ache of what we’d lost, but also the seed of an eventual return.
ISRAEL’S WILDERNESS WANDERINGS: THE CRUCIBLE OF FAITH
The Israelites’ 406 years in the wilderness represent more than just a geographical journey—they embody the soul’s journey from bondage to promise. This period of exile became a crucible where God shaped a people, teaching them to depend not on the certainties of Egypt but on His daily provision.
In our own spiritual journeys as strangers and exiles, those wilderness seasons—times of uncertainty, waiting, and testing—serve a similar purpose. They strip away our illusions of self-sufficiency and teach us to rely on God’s faithfulness. The manna that couldn’t be stored, the cloud that moved at God’s timing rather than ours—these were object lessons in trust and surrender.
BABYLON: WHEN GOD SEEMS FAR
The Babylonian exile represented Israel’s darkest hour—the loss of land, temple, and seemingly their identity as God’s people. Yet, in Babylon Israel learned God wasn’t confined to Jerusalem. In foreign soil, they discovered new ways to worship, to maintain their identity, and to be God’s people without the familiar structures they’d relied upon.
How often do our own spiritual exiles—seasons of doubt, loss, or confusion—become unexpected sites of transformation? Like Israel, we learn God’s presence isn’t limited to our comfortable religious frameworks.
JESUS: THE GOD WHO ENTERS OUR EXILE
The incarnation represents a divine exile—God Himself choosing to leave heaven’s glory to enter our broken world. Jesus’s ministry consistently showed special concern for those who were physically, socially, or spiritually exiled. From Samaritan wells to tax collector’s homes and Gerasene tombs a night’s boat ride away, He sought out the displaced, the marginalised and the demoniac.
Through His death and resurrection, Jesus became the ultimate bridge between our exile and our eternal home. In Him, we find both the end of our wandering and the beginning of our true homecoming.
THE CHURCH: A COMMUNITY OF HOLY EXILES
Peter addressed his first letter to “God’s elect, exiles scattered throughout the provinces” (1 Peter 1:1). The early church understood itself as a community of strangers and exiles—people who were citizens of heaven while still journeying through earth. The dual identity enabled them to be both fully engaged in their cultural moment while maintaining their distinct character as God’s people.
That persistent restlessness we feel—what Augustine called our “heart’s restlessness until it finds its rest in God”—is actually the Holy Spirit’s work within us. It’s a divine homesickness, a holy dissatisfaction that keeps us from becoming too comfortable in temporary dwellings. This spiritual restlessness serves as an internal compass, continuously orienting us toward our true home.
THE FINAL HOMECOMING: FROM EXILE TO ETERNAL DWELLING
Scripture’s exile narrative finds its ultimate resolution in Revelation’s vision of the New Jerusalem, where God will dwell with His people in perfect communion. This promise transforms our present experience of exile—we’re not just wandering, we’re being prepared for an eternal homecoming.
Like the faithful ones in Hebrews 11, our sense of being “strangers and exiles” isn’t a spiritual malfunction—it’s evidence we’ve glimpsed something of our true home. That persistent feeling of displacement that follows us through life is actually God’s gift, His way of keeping our hearts tender toward heaven. He has deliberately engineered this holy homesickness to ensure we never fully settle for anything less than Himself.
This understanding transforms our experience of that familiar ‘stranger and exile’ feeling. Rather than fighting it or trying to satisfy it with earthly solutions, we learn to embrace it as evidence God is actively preparing us for our eternal home. As Hebrews 11:16 affirms, “God is not ashamed to be called their God, for he has prepared for them a city.” Our spiritual homesickness isn’t just leading us home, it’s proof we already belong to Him.
STRANGERS AND EXILES—RELATED FAQs
Scripture gives us intimate portraits of individuals whom God led through seasons of exile and wandering. These stories reveal how God uses displacement and uncertainty to deepen faith and transform character, showing us our wilderness seasons aren’t detours but divine appointments.
How can I trust God when He’s asking me to leave everything familiar behind? Abraham’s journey from Ur to Canaan teaches us sometimes God’s greatest works begin with a radical call to leave the familiar. Like Abraham, who stepped out with nothing but God’s promise as his compass, we learn living as strangers and pilgrims requires daily choices to trust God’s guidance over visible security.
What if my wilderness season is the result of my own mistakes? Jacob’s story reminds us God can redeem even the wilderness seasons we create for ourselves. Fleeing from the consequences of his deception, Jacob encountered God at Bethel and Peniel, discovering that places of exile can become sacred ground for divine transformation. His story shows us God’s grace meets us even in self-imposed exile.
How can I maintain hope when my situation keeps getting worse instead of better? Joseph’s journey from favoured son to slave to prisoner demonstrates how God can use each painful displacement for His greater purpose. His story teaches us what appears to be a downward spiral may actually be God’s positioning for a greater destiny, as personal tragedy becomes the path to salvation for an entire tribe.
What’s the purpose of this wilderness season if God has already given me a clear calling? Moses’s 40 years in Midian, after fleeing Egypt but before leading the Exodus, shows us God often uses wilderness seasons as preparation periods. What feels like wasted time may actually be God’s training ground, transforming our character to match the calling He’s already given us.
What if my wilderness experience has led to devastating loss? Naomi’s bitter exodus to and from Moab shows us God’s redemption story continues even through crushing loss. Through her journey, we learn our deepest losses can become the soil for unexpected blessing, as her path of grief ultimately led to her part in Christ’s lineage through Ruth’s faithful companionship.
How can I stay faithful to my calling during seasons of rejection and hiding? David’s years as a fugitive, despite being anointed as king, reveal how wilderness seasons can be times of deep spiritual formation. His exile years produced Israel’s most beloved psalms. They transformed a shepherd boy into a shepherd king, and teach us our times of rejection often become our richest periods of spiritual growth.
What if I’m experiencing spiritual burnout in my wilderness season? Elijah’s flight to the wilderness after his Mount Carmel victory shows us even spiritual giants face seasons of exhaustion and doubt. God’s gentle whisper under the broom tree teaches us that sometimes God meets us not in dramatic displays of power but in moments of quiet vulnerability, revealing new dimensions of His presence.
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